Just Because

Just Because

Monday, September 14, 2015

Without going into very deep personal things I would like to explain to you a little bit about why I feel my reply (by Facebook status) is valid, now before I begin I do not need your validation, for you to agree with me, or for you to even understand what I am talking about.

All I ask is that you keep an open mind while reading this.

I recently came in contact with someone on the internet who was going off about how 18-22 year olds feel like they should have the entire world handed to them on a "gold diamond encrusted dish". The way they were putting their opinion across and even in the way they replied to other comments seemed like they thought that EVERY single one of the humans on this earth ages 18-22 we're "entitled children" 

If your talking to me, commenting on my blog, tweeting at me, talking to me on ANY social media outlet, chances are you don't actually know me. When I put my opinion out there PLEASE don't tell me to shut up. We are all entitled to freedom of speech, yes however, that does not mean you have to be degrading and rude to anyone who has an opposing opinion.

"Treat others how you want to be treated"
"If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all"
"Say only positive things"

Just because I am blonde, doesn't give you the right to say that I am a "dumb blonde"
Just because I am 20 does not mean I am an "Immature leech who cant support myself."
Just because your older than me does not mean I am "Unable to understand what you are saying"
Just because I am white does not mean I am "racist"

By all means explain it to me! Try to change my mind!
But don't belittle anyone because they are different.

please everyone. try to stop belittling everyone and everything they believe in.
Yes, voice your opinion!
No you don't have to be politically correct.

But you also don't have to be rude because someone believes something different from you.
Voice your opinion with respect every time, you will get more respect for people. I promise.

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Relationships and Patience

Relationships and Patience

Tuesday, October 21, 2014

Sometimes we just can't begin to understand the things we need when we are doing everything on our own. We also can not always handle everything life throws at us, that's why it can be nice to have someone along with you on your journey through life, that even means as you mature in your younger years as well as when you are older. I personally like this post because I am currently in a 3 year and on going relationship with my boyfriend Cheyne. For young couples in a relationship, Learning to be patient, learning to compromise and being committed can help them grow into respectable, carrying people which is why i have decided to post this and get my opinion out there. 

As a teenage I see way too many comments, posts, pictures, etc. about "youngsters" being in too serious of a relationship and i feel it is making our generation scared of commitment. For a while i was afraid to show people how much i liked Cheyne becuase i was so afraid of being put down and just having my feeling shrugged off as "oh its just puppy love" and "oh you'll get over that soon enough. Sometimes I think that every love flame starts out as "puppy love"... It just grows. 

Being patient is not something i am very good at. However since by boyfriend and i have been dating I have improved a lot, I've been learning to be more patient especially since my boyfriends goal in life is to annoy me forever. I have found that as i am in a relationship i see things that annoy me then i see them in myself, so i learn to change them, one of those things is how impatient i am. It is very important to be patient in today's world because everyday we have to deal with rude people in traffic, computers and machines not loading or working correctly, and even obnoxious grocery store cashiers. So it can be really good to have patience. 
After all there is that saying ‘Patience is virtue’. 
It can make living your everyday life so much easier. Learning to be patient with your significant other can help your whole life in so many ways and it can also help you in your relationship. 

Even if you aren't together forever you will still have a huge impact on each others lives so try to make it the most positive impact you could ever make on them. A huge part about being patient is learning to compromise, you can’t always have instant gratification as we have all failed at remembering at least once in our life times.


P.S. I am no expert.. lol i am only just about to turn 20. I just know how i constantly felt put down by who i decided to "date".. and that it could never be real. I wanted to try to help younger people who feel like I did.
I am here for you.
I always will be.
It is okay to get your heart broken a little.
It helps you grow and mature.
<3
Just give me a tweet or email.
I will respond just like i always have!!
<3

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