Update: Wedding planning..? Air force? and Moving!

Update: Wedding planning..? Air force? and Moving!

Friday, April 17, 2015

Hey guys! I have had a few people ask me about a life update since the last one where I told you I was engaged and that my fiance was going into the Air Force.

Air Force?? 

Well... Things have changed he actually got a new job offer and has been with this company now for like.. . four or five weeks. He loves it, the perks are amazing and we both love that this company has an opportunity for promotions and such. Also when Cheyne went for his physical stuff at MEPS they told him that he had to wait for confirmation from higher ups for a waiver for a skin condition they thought he had. His family doesn't have a history of this but they never did tests or even sent him to a dermatologist for confirmation. It was all just a guess.
Well it took them about two or three months to come to a decision and in that time cheyne got the job offer and left the company he was at. The day he went for his first day of work, that same night got the call that the Air Force had denied his waiver request. We had a chance to go get it verified that he didn't have it and such but we came to the conclusion that we wanted to stay here, see where this job would take us and it felt right.
We haven't closed the door on the Air Force but were letting things go the way they want to go. Cheyne really loves where he is at.

We are still engaged! 

YAYY! lol Not that I ever thought we wouldn't be lol. I have had some people asking because they don't see me posting wedding planning stuff.
I have not completely started planning anything yet. I think I know where we want it, we just don't even have a budget for the wedding yet.. so were trying to figure all that out..
We really want to get married on May 31st... but that is a Tuesday.. lol so we were thinking about the weekend before that. We just don't know yet.

WERE MOVING AGAIN!!

So we have moved a lot lately. But Cheyne's new job is about an hour and twenty minutes away from where we are staying now. So we started apartment hunting and budgeting to see what we could afford. We found a complex that is being built right now that is about 20 minutes from his new job we really like it and got a really good price on it for 15 months!! YAYYY!!
Our move in date is the 3rd of June.. it was may 13th but they had a delay in construction and had to push the date back into our trip! So we had to push it back another week and a half!! UGHH!!


Here is a link to my last update where I talked about getting engaged, the Air Force announcement, and dying my hair:Click here!!

I'm not including my hair dying in these anymore. I have a page for this here!!

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Favorite combination of nail polish 4/15/2015

Favorite combination of nail polish 4/15/2015

Wednesday, April 15, 2015

I thought it might be fun to share the way I have been doing my nails lately. I use a combination of:

-Essie Coat Couture #974 from the Cashmere Matte collection
-Essie  Summit Of Style #946 from Luxeffects collection
-Mini Gelish Top It Off in combination with the Gelish lamp.

I got mine at Sally's beauty store, I opted for the LED light instead of the UV light since I feel safer using the LED light. 

Make sure your nails are completely free of nail polish and cleaned. If they are not the matte coat will dry funny and it will mess up the whole system... 

So don't mess up the system.

Coat 1 of Essie coat couture.

Coat 2 of Essie coat couture.

 Only one coat of Essie summit of style and one coat of Gelish Top It Off.

Put your nails under the light until the light goes out... I usually do four and then my thumb.

 They are super shiny afterwards. Even using the matte coloring it ends up a very nice shimmery shiny color. 

One day I am going to go buy the matte Gelish top coat and just use the coat couture. I love the color by its self. 

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Young, committed and in a relationship.

Young, committed and in a relationship.

Tuesday, February 10, 2015

We can not always handle everything life throws at us, that's why it can be nice to have someone along with you on your journey through life, that even means as you mature in your younger years (Let's say your twenties). For young couples in a relationship, Learning to be patient and change and grow with each other, can help them grow into respectable, carrying people. There are a lot of pros and cons to being in a serious committed relationship even in your early twenties.

Being patient is not something I am very good at. However since Cheyne and i have been dating I have improved a lot, I've been learning to be more patient especially since Cheyne's goal in life is to annoy me forever (Just kidding!!) I have found that as I am in a relationship I see things that annoy me, then I see them in myself, like I actually see myself doing those exact things! So I've learned to change them, you could say I am changing and becoming a better person just by being in such an amazing relationship. 

Learning to be patient with your significant other can help your whole life in so many ways and it can also help you in your relationship. Even if you aren't together forever you will still have a huge impact on each others lives so try to make it the most positive impact you could make on them. A huge part about being patient is learning to compromise, you can’t always have instant gratification as we have all failed at remember at least once in our life times

When you are in a serious relationship with someone you always need to continue to think about the other person as well as your self. communication is key to having a good long lasting relationship. 

Everyone must learn this skill because it can be very hard to have any kind of relationship without it. It is not always "Who wears the pants?" but what balance can be found between the two people who are hopefully both wearing pants... In a relationship you can not always get what you want and definitely not always when you want it, you have to be able to sit down and ask someone “What do you want?” without being upset when they do not say exactly what you wanted them to say. 

It can be very difficult for some people to let things go any way but what they want. So sometimes the commitment helps them compromise with that other person. When you really feel a connection with someone it can help you think about what that person may want, it can help you because then you feel as though you do not just want to make yourself happy but you also want to make the other person happy.

Everyone has those days where you just want to lay in bed in your comfy duvet with delicious take out and skip work, school and all duties you committed to when you were in the mood to do things. . I feel as though we need stop procrastinating, stop changing our minds at the last second and learn to see things through. If you are committed to something them get off your lazy bum and do it. In relationships this is a huge problem especially when you think about the divorce rate lately. People take commitment very lightly. A commitment in a relationship is such an important thing, once you know someone is committed to you it can be so much easier to be your self around them and your relationship can grow even more. If you feel like the other person is not committed to you there is almost a trust that is broken. Commitment is something people really only think about when they are married or getting ready to be married, it should really be thought about before there is even thought about and engagement. 

I have noticed that whenever someone thinks of “Young couples” it tends to have a very negative idea and feel surrounding it. The thing is young couples have just as much of a change of being together forever as they do of break up in a few days, months, or years. Every person is different. 

Remember!! This is all based on my own experience with relationships and being young.

I love Cheyne and am very excited about spending the rest of my life with him. 

Love You!

Chey.

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Update: AirForce, Getting Married and So Much Change!!

Update: AirForce, Getting Married and So Much Change!!

Thursday, January 29, 2015

Now that our families know i can finally make an official post about this.

Cheyne Proposed to me on December 26th 2014. I kind of knew it was coming I just did not know when or where or how, I thought that it was so funny that even though I knew it was coming I was still very surprised when he did. My ring is perfect!

We have been looking into the Airforce for Cheyne for quite a long time now and he is going into DEP soon. Then I don't get to see him for TWO WHOLE MONTHS after he goes to basic.

But i am really trying to be positive because it will be worth it in the long run!

I dyed my hair red! I really love it!! I never dyed by whole head before so this is huge!! 

I also thought that i would keep you guys up to date on whats going on. especially since its not secret anymore.

I have to find out what I am allowed to post about the Airforce. It is our military. So i don't wanna put up stuff they don't like. <3 p="">I'm extremely excited for whats coming

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