Friday, November 20, 2015

Just a Ramble:Taking forever to write another post/Balancing Act

I have been so busy! 

I just realized the other day that I have posted NOTHING for over a month. 

I really need to stop that because blogging is something that I love! I need to make sure I stay on this! While blogging I found a new love of writing so I don't know why I can't keep up with this! 

I promise that I really do love doing this. I just need to find my schedule, I need to get on a grove with this. 

I have been sickly two times in the past three weeks, Cheyne got sick then I got sick, then Cheyne got sick again. and now I am sick again. Gotta love sick season! 
After having people stay with us I am finally getting the house back in order. (That includes getting life back in order as well! Haha!) 
We had people stay with us for a little bit and I am always up for helping people and making life easier when people need it but sometimes you just have to tell people no, I had to say "Listen, we've tried talking to you, we've tried fixing things, but you're just not doing what you need to get done and you cannot stay at my house forever especially since I have a lease and I do not want to break my lease." 

It broke my heart because this person was quite close to me; but sometimes you just have to do what is best for you and your own life. Don't ever let anyone take advantage of you. No matter what is going on you can ALWAYS say NO. Don't cut people short, but also don't let anyone make you feel bad for saying "That's enough!". It is definitely a balancing act. 

I am going to start doing ALOT more in the upcoming days and I might so a "Blogmas" Type thing starting after Thanksgiving... we will see!
Love you guys!

Wednesday, October 14, 2015

What To Do Wednesday: Wedding Planning!

Imagine you... just realized you only have 8 months until your wedding! 

You are sending out the save the date cards...  and.... Going wedding dress shopping.... you also have the venue rented.. 

... What do you do ?! YOU HAVE NOTHING DONE! ...

That is how i felt last weekend. I suddenly realized it was way closer than I remembered! 
I am not the "Bridezilla" type, actually my wedding is pretty laid back.
I want everyone to just have fun at my wedding!
I want it on the beach, at night, like a bonfire. With S'mores and Kebabs! (Yummmm.)
No crazy family drama, No weird freak outs, No panics, Just relaxed, have fun good times. 
That's what I have always imagined my wedding being..
So what I did was I started really thinking about who I wanted to be in my bridal party! 
I had SO many questions, how many people? big? small? same dresses? different dresses? traditional? contemporary? what am I supposed to do!?!?

On top of not knowing exactly what to do, I am a bit of a control freak, but not in a bad way. I love to do things, I don't know how to explain it. I just really love doing things the way I want to do them, that in mind everyone wants to help me! lol so I have been learning to release the reigns and let others do it for me. I am quite the perfectionist.

So.. What should I do? 

#1. Find the dress.
#2. Send out the save the date cards.
#3. Start figuring out the details. 




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